thisisforeverxo asked: heeeygirl, so i remember reblogging that cute picture of you and your boy awhile ago, since then i think things have changed and im pretty sure im going through a similar situation. I just seen one of your comments on a photo - and i literally wrote the same thing - if you don't mind me asking, like 1. how are you, are you okay? and 2. how the hell do you handle it! Im dying ....

First and foremost, I’m so sorry to hear that! Keep your head up because I know it might seem like you’re at rockbottom but honestly, if things really are that bad, that just tells you that it can’t get any worse and there’s no where else to go butup. I can promise you that it WILL get better. How did I handle it? 1. Time. Spend time for yourself and do the things that you love. Spoil yourself! 2. Accept the fact that he’s gone. There’s nothing worse than dwelling on the past. It’ll do nothing but bring you down.  3. Now that you know better, use it to your benefit. Learn from the situation and use it to better yourself.

I know I just wrote you a book but I had to lol If you need anything, you know where to find me. Stay strong!  :*